Solving Workplace Stress with Ah Q Spirit
Do you feel you lack a sense of occupational safety?
If so, what are your reasons?
It ‘s also difficult for subordinates to admire Sun Ling ‘s 38-year-old deputy manager’s sense of career crisis. I think modern people are a little bit more. After all, it ‘s not the age of eating “big pot rice”, especially female white-collar workers, family career, taking care of both ends, let alone someFan taste in my heart.
Take me as an example. I entered the company with a college degree.
This education now sounds a little low, but it was still OK at that time, coupled with his young age and willingness to endure hardships, he devoted himself to work and was greatly appreciated by the boss. He was promoted from an ordinary employee to a supervisor within six months and two yearsThen he took the position of the current deputy manager.
However, even if everything goes smoothly, my sense of professional crisis has never stopped: I was worried about business issues when I started working, afraid that the task would not be completed, and I was afraid that I would be overtaken by my peers. After marriage, I was afraid that a child would affect the job, and I was worried about it.The easy-to-spell position was crowded out by others; now, after so many years, the position should be considered stable, but there are other concerns.
The first is the academic qualifications, which gradually become more and more problematic through time, especially when watching new people keep coming in, each one is at least a degree or above, and masters and doctors are not unusual. They are full of confidence and vitality. They must be convinced.Doing things under my hands, I have to improve myself. Second, age, women are always particularly sensitive on this issue. Although their position is not to eat “youth rice”, they face young colleagues and subordinates.Sometimes it can be particularly embarrassing.
I remember a time when I lost my temper at a work meeting because of business affairs. As a result, when I passed the company ‘s bathroom during lunch break, I actually heard a ridiculous voice like “menopause” inside.Talking to me, don’t worry about how uncomfortable I was at the time, but I still have to pretend to be indifferent and continue to work, it is really aggrieved.
Therefore, although I am in an important position and working hours, I still take the time to go out to study in a refresher class. I need to get a certificate to make up for my lack of education. I also want to prove that I am young and have enough energy.
However, the price of this is that I spend less and less time at home, and sometimes I ca n’t talk to my husband and son for a week, I feel regretful, but I ca n’t help but hope to be busy soonAt this stage, accompany them well during the New Year, and then continue to add new “fights.”
I was tired of finding Zhang Zhongming’s 32-year-old department manager. After I left school, everything went smoothly. I mentioned the department manager in two or three years.
In theory, it should be proud of the spring breeze, but I still have potential stress and crisis at all times.
When I entered the unit, I was doing personnel and office internal work. I felt that my strengths could not be realized, so I applied to transfer to the business department.
Finally, I repaid as I wished, responsible for market development and coordination with the outside.
This is a huge challenge for me.
My profession is not related to this style.
I often feel the distrustful eyes of my colleagues and have heard some gossip. What should I do?
I had to grit my teeth, after all, I asked to adjust the work. If I didn’t do well, my colleagues joked, my boss criticized them, or they were simply replaced by others.
I have a rest. In order to get started as quickly as possible, I read a book until two in the morning every day. In addition to working hard during the day, I have to accompany laughter.
Another point is that I am a Ph.D. With a high degree of education, I have also suffered some damages.
What should have been done by two or three people, and I want to do it alone.
Moreover, you can’t smash things, or you will be accused of “or a doctor, you can’t even do this”.
Although many people are envious of my current part and income, I may not know which day I will be covering up.
Now our company has several masters in management, all of which are in the limelight. I think maybe they are my “reserve forces”.
Journalists’ notes do not have to be too demanding and is a heavy topic.
I know that I will really understand what it means to be cold.
Listening to the “story behind the scenes”, I can’t help but feel wronged for the so-called successful people. Behind the scenery is infinite bitterness.
They are faced with too much pressure. The strings in their heads have been tightened tightly, or for fierce competition, or for complex interpersonal relationships, or even for their own image. In short, every family has a difficult experience.
To a certain extent, this is indeed a good thing.
It is precisely because of the existence of so many crises that we are not constrained from moving forward, and we are struggling to move forward under heavy sorrow.
But everything has a degree, the word “depressed” sounds from time to time, almost all have to win the highest annual frequency award, this is not a healthy phenomenon.
The reason why we have so many psychological tortures is mostly because we have too many desires in our hearts and we are burdened by foreign objects.
Although we can’t be as carefree as children, and can’t roam like fairies in the mythology, we can learn a little bit about Laozi Zhuangzi.
We are all ordinary people, so we must have ordinary mind.
Find a coordinate that suits you, so that we will be self-adapted, more self-deprecating, and more A-Q spirit?
Do your best.
I have something to say that after nearly two decades of ups and downs, in the last few years I finally realized the dream of my information director.
However, professional advancement and promotion of posts have brought me endless troubles.Every time the corporate reorganization and staff crunch, the information technology department as a second-line department almost took turns.
In order to control and reduce the internal human resources costs of the company, the position of the information director is always vacillating. Sometimes I really want to propose to downgrade my position to be the manager of the information department. Maybe I can sleep more safely at night.
-Sun Jianmou Group Information Director may wish to “AQ” in the workplace.
Think about anything good.
For example, doing more things better than others does not prevent me from thinking about doing things. I have learned more skills than others.
For another example, if someone else is more admired by the leader than himself, he thinks that person must have more skills than me.
-Chen Qi’s competition is very fierce now, and talents are constantly emerging. With a little carelessness, some people will fill the position later.
I’m almost thirty, I don’t dare to have children; it is precisely that there are no children, and the job change becomes a problem. The new unit is always afraid that my age will affect work because of having children.
I’ve been hesitant to ask for a child. The seat must not be guaranteed, should I start again?
-Although Zhang Li said that I worked in a state-owned enterprise, I still lacked a sense of security and always felt unemployed without paying attention.
Employees don’t care about their performance, but they care about the face of their leaders.
When working, the strings are tight and not afraid to be negligent.
-He Zuhong Now, the competition is fierce. No matter which line or level you go to, there will be crises. Therefore, the only way is to learn more and involve more new things in order to adapt to the times.
-As long as you have a fixed job, Xiaoxin will definitely feel a sense of career crisis.
So I simply became a freelancer, “take a shot and change a place”, but I was comfortable, wasn’t it?
-I am an IT person, and I have been living in crisis.
The update of knowledge is a guarantee of our survival for us, otherwise, cruel competition will eliminate you.
-Li Xin’s sense of professional crisis, I think anyone will have it, but now it seems that everyone is used to it, don’t so many people have been jumping around, this is a result of competition, especially young people, sometimes it doesn’t matterBecause we have strength and time.
It’s our slogan to leave if you can’t.